Signs he is a loser
He’s probably the most handsome man you’ve ever met; he’s also good in seducing woman and makes you fly to seventh heaven. But unfortunately on the other hand he’s lazy and likes to spend time for useless activity. Here are four signs of loser and how to handle this situation.
1. Wishy washy
At first maybe you like his mysterious demeanor. But disappeared for several days without clarity, always partying all night long and refuses to let you know what he is doing, is a strong warning to evaluate your relationship with him.
2. He is always lazy
When you are leaving the house in the morning for working, he is still covered under the blanket. Once you go home, he is sleeping on the couch or playing video games all day long. He is always playing with Facebook, watch television, and can’t do something useful. He doesn’t have motivation to be a better man. It’s a sign that he is truly a loser.
3. Always broke
A loser always has a million reasons why he can’t get money. Start from bad economic condition, his boss was suck, difficulty to find a job that could appreciate his talent and bla … bla … bla. When you both having lunch or dinner, he never had money to pay the bills, it’s always you who have to pay the bills.
4. You are always supporting his life
Although you really love him, don’t let yourself to always support his life financially. A real man will respect himself and his couple as well, he will not let his couple to pay his needs continuously. He will realize that he has to be able to stand on his own feet. If he always asks for your help to meet his needs, even for the small ones, you should start to consider about this relationship.
What to do?
The first thing you should do is, stop spending money to meet his needs and obligations. You may think that you only help him. But in the long run, he will take more from you, financially and emotionally. He will think that he doesn’t have to change his bad behaviors because there’s someone who will always help him.
If you experience this kind of situation, you should be firm and say that you’re not comfortable with his bad behavior. If he really loves you, he will try hard to change his behavior and becomes a better man, but if he ignores your words, maybe it’s time for you to say goodbye and find someone better.